For individuals

Other Pregnancy Loss.

Our work focuses on miscarriage. It is not the only way a pregnancy ends, and if you are here after a different kind of loss, much of what is on this site may still be for you. This page is a short map of what else there is, and of who covers it better than we do.

Stillbirth

A pregnancy lost at or after twenty weeks. It is counted separately from miscarriage, cared for differently, and carries its own grief, and it has organizations working on it with far more depth than we could bring. If that is why you are here, start with them rather than with us.

PUSH for Empowered Pregnancy ↗Campaigns for stillbirth prevention and for the changes in care that would make it measurable. Founded and run by bereaved parents.Star Legacy Foundation ↗Stillbirth research, education and bereavement support, with local chapters across the United States.
Ending a wanted pregnancy for medical reasons

Sometimes a wanted pregnancy is ended after a diagnosis, aneuploidy, a severe anomaly, or a risk to the mother's own health. That is a loss. People who have been through it often say that ordinary pregnancy-loss support does not quite fit, because the grief arrives with a decision attached to it, and with other people's opinions about that decision. Nothing here assumes otherwise, and nothing here assumes it could have gone another way.

Postpartum Support International ↗A free online support group specifically for termination for medical reasons, led by trained facilitators. One group is for mothers and this one is open to partners, gestational and non-gestational parents alike.Meets twice a month on Zoom. PSI also runs a general perinatal mental health helpline and a provider directory.Empty Arms Bereavement Support ↗Three free drop-in groups a month, on Zoom, open to individuals and families in any location. A bereavement organization based in Florence, Massachusetts, with this group run as one strand of its wider loss support.Drop-in, so there is nothing to commit to before you know whether it helps.TFMR Mamas ↗Free monthly online support groups, and weekly groups on a sliding scale that run in separate tracks for those who are grieving, pregnant again, or parenting after a TFMR. Also publishes a podcast of first-hand accounts.A UK-registered non-profit serving an international membership. Some of the support is paid, which the others here are not.
Ectopic and molar pregnancy

A pregnancy that implants outside the uterus cannot continue, and treating it is often urgent enough that the loss itself gets dealt with last. Molar pregnancy is rarer again, and brings months of follow-up that most people have never heard of until it happens to them. Both are losses, and both leave the same questions about what happened and what it means for trying again.

Miscarriage UK ↗A confidential support line and detailed guidance covering miscarriage, ectopic and molar pregnancy.UK-based, so the care pathways are written for the NHS. The support line and the plain-language guidance travel.
Why we focus on miscarriage

Because that is where the gap is largest. Miscarriage ends somewhere around a third of pregnancies counted from four weeks, and almost none of that is matched by research: no routine workup after a first or second loss, very few treatments that have been properly tested, and no dedicated institute whose job it is. We picked the most common outcome that nobody studies. That is a judgement about neglect, not about which loss counts.

The questions are not separate ones

Several of the factors in our evidence library, antiphospholipid syndrome, thyroid disease, diabetes, appear in the literature on later loss as well. We would not claim that treating them prevents both, and we have not reviewed that evidence. What we would say is that the biology of an early pregnancy failing does not stop being relevant at twenty weeks, and that work on the causes of miscarriage is unlikely to help only miscarriage.

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